Tuesday, 23 January 2018

I am failing because others are failing as i am part of crowd #factor of failure

We live in a society where we learn to live life as lived by the others in our society.
Since childhood, we always asked to become a doctor or engineer. we don’t even allow to think beyond this.
While taking the admission if we came to know that there is recession in market and most of the collogue are not going for engineering then you immediately change your plan of engineering, this is because we are part of crowd.
Our family, society don’t want us to think differently, explore more because everyone wants us to be part of this crowd.
Recently I came to know about the bitcoins and other cryptocurrency, everyone just wants to buy the same (without knowing about the mechanism behind them) which is bought by their knowns. This is because we are part of crowd.
When I completed my 10th and going to took admission in 11th, then I choose Non-Medical as all my fried were choosing Non-Medical (They even don’t know why they were selecting Non-Medical, they knew that we can become engineer in 6 years and start earning money and this is the scenario in current market).
There was a recession in engineering in around 2002, and it was a rumored in society that engineers are getting only 5000, so we decided to go for BCA without even thinking, what BCA can do for me.
One day in BCA I was on 4th floor and trying to locate my Bike among the 100s of bikes on ground floor, but I was unable to do so, that make me realize that if I am not able to recognize my own bike just in few bikes that how you will be recognized in this crowd, this moment hit me a lot.
I decided to make identity in crowd even I don’t know how I will do that, I decide to get University Position in BCA and doing CA along with the same, I did PE-1(First stage of CA) and got 2nd position in BCA.
I started an institute for Computer coaching and stared 2 more business in one year successfully along with the MBA (Distance education). As per me I am doing something different from my surrounding.
After 1 year, I took admission in MCA regular while doing the business, Stared Bok writing also.
Shut down all the business as I was not able to manage with time, Got the Job in a startup to explore the things, here I do hard work and start blogging about my domain to make me separate from crowd of office. Along with the same I tried some startup but not able to make them successful, now started writing linked in articles, motivational speeches.
Though my decisions were immature, but I tried not to be part of this small crowd around me and now I felt a confidence in my level of thinking and exposure to current market.
If I am doing what others are doing , if i am thinking like others are thinking, if i am working like others are working, Then i will also be fail like other are failing.
Don’t be a part of crowd, believe me - It’s not that difficult 

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